Tuesday 31 July 2012

Sexual Orientation in America


Sexual Orientation in America


This video consists of a panel of three people, a Transgender, a Bisexual and a Homosexual. The format is a combination of discussion and callers questions. It’s an interesting video to watch as it shows the thoughts of people from all sexual orientations (there is also a straight woman) who currently live in America. The topics range from sexual health, awareness of one’s sexual orientation, ‘coming out’ and how people respond. One of the most telling discussion topics, that in my opinion says a lot about the current state of America, is that of public affection. Russell, who is the panel leader, brings up the fact that there are still many barriers that homosexuals have to face when out in public. For example holding hands, kissing etc is still viewed with distaste when homosexuals are involved; however it is perfectly normal for heterosexual couples. Indeed the Bisexual explained that while her mum encourage and welcomed the presence of men in her daughter’s life, they were allowed to sleep round etc, this was not the case when she dated females.
  
I think the most important thing to draw away from this video is that there are many problems faced by Homosexuals and Transgender individuals, however the very presence of this video indicates change. There is no doubt that even ten years ago, individuals would be comfortable enough, let alone allowed to talk this openly about their sexual orientation. While there is still a lot of resistance to people who vary sexually from heterosexuality, it is becoming more and more acceptable. A large part of this is due to people like Ellen Degeneres, ‘coming out of the closet’. Well known people such as Ellen have vast influence on the way people think, especially in such a media-driven culture as America. 

Faith and America


Faith and America

I chose this website due to its intense focus on Christian America. The website is filled with quotes from the bible, in fact looking at the ‘About us’ section, the whole content is formed of direct quotes. To me this highlights the extremity of their beliefs. The main argument they put forward on the website is that America was formed on Christianity, and therefore this IS the identity of all Americans, they believe this is shown by documents such as the Bill of Rights and the Declaration of Independence. I think this website is relevant in relation to its values. To me, religious freedom is the freedom to believe in your individual beliefs, and yet this website argues that religious freedom is threatened by atheism and that the only way is the Christian way. This is to me, a damaging view point. 

Critique of Nickel and Dimed


Critique of Nickel and Dimed

A review I strongly agree with, this article draws attention to the limits of Ehrenreich ‘investigations’. It highlights the fact that for all her good intentions, Ehrenreich failed to fully immerge herself into the social group she was attempting to study and therefore was unsuccessful in fully comprehending their world. Whether this was deliberate for political reasons (as suggested in the review) or simply a lacklustre exploration by a somewhat silver-spooned individual is unclear, however it is important to note that Ehrenreich is a socialist and therefore a tad biased.  It is true that the minimum wage earned by these women is almost impossible to survive on alone, the important thing to note, is that they don’t do it alone. These women have husbands, boyfriends, social networks that are massively integral to how their society works. They help each other. The problem is that Ehrenreich failed to make use of these social guards and this was what made her experience less then realistic. It also meant that the book primarily focused on her and this is not what we want to read about. While it is interesting to see how she handles the day to day life; the use of extra money, the lack of inclusion in social groups and her general attitude, mean that in actuality we, as the reader, are not getting the truth behind how these women live. In my opinion and that of the reviews, she would have done better to talk to more about the members of this social group and divulge how THEY survived, what THEY thought and how THEY lived. While I admit we did have some life stories from the people she met, there was too much of her (an intruder in a foreign environment), and not enough of the REAL people.    

Push Critique


Critique of Push
After reading Push by Sapphire I felt like I wanted to go out and do something positive and uplifting because the novel was so intense. However, when I read Push the second time; I realized that I missed many of the hurdles and problems that Precious was able to overcome. So I started thinking about what made this possible for Precious? What are some lessons that can be learned and applied?
I recognized 15 factors that helped Precious overcome; I hope this will inspire you to overcome your problems and inspire you to help others to do the same.
1. Precious had a desire for better:
I really want to learn. Everyday I tell myself something gonna happen…I’m gonna break through or somebody gonna break through to me—I’m gonna learn, catch up, be normal, change my seat to the front of the class.
2. Precious experienced genuine affection:
I try to turn away from her Mississippi self but she in the bed now pulling my chest and shoulders into her arms…I feel warm kindness from her I never feel from mama and I start to cry…I crying for me who no one never hold before.
3. Precious found her ticket out and persevered:
I is ready. Ready for school. School something…School gonna help me get out dis house.
4. Precious did something different. She took a risk and conquered the fear and limits of her past experiences:
The whole class quiet. Everybody starring at me, God don’t let me cry. I takes in air through my nose, a big breath, then I start to walk slow to the back. But something like birds or light fly through my heart. And my feet stop. At the first row. An’ for the first time in my life I sits down in the front row.
5. Precious’ strengths were recognized:
“Everybody do something good”, Ms Rain say in soft voice. I shake my head, can’t think of nuffin’ I’m staring at my shoes. “One thing.” Ms. Rain. “I can cook.”
6. Precious took the necessary first step although it was small:
The longest journey begin with a single step, as said by Ms. Rain. Precious’ first step was to learn the alphabet and its correct order. A small step but this step helped her with subsequent giant future steps, leaps and bounds.
7. Precious worked up the courage to voice her areas of need so that she could get help:
I struggle for air. “I…the pages look alike to me.” I breave in deep, there I said it.
8. Precious had someone who believed in her; recognized her potential and was relentless about seeing her succeed:
I think I understand you, Precious. But for now, I want you to try, push yourself Precious, go for it.
9. Precious received positive reinforcement:
“What’s that word?” I say “Ate.” She say, “Good! Almost! That word is “at.”…I want to cry. I want to laugh. I want to hug kiss Miz Rain. She make me feel good.
10. There was high expectations of Precious:
Everyone that Precious came in contact with prior to Ms. Rain did not expect much from her and saw her as dumb and treated her as such. Ms. Rain recognized the potential in Precious and expected a lot from her because of it.
Rhonda say out loud, “How we gonna write for fifteen minutes if we can’t spell?” What we gonna write if we could spell, I wonder. Miz Rain say, “Write what’s on your mind, push yourself to see the letters that represent the words you’re thinking.”
11. Precious recognized that she is someone of value:
I = I somebody.
Inside I thought was so beautiful, is a black girl too.
He my shiny brown boy. In his beauty I see my own.
12. Precious recognized that the abuse she suffered was not her fault:
I don’t feel ashamed—Carl Kenwood Jones freak NOT me!
13. Precious had one person she could trust:
Precious trusted her teacher Ms. Rain and turned to her in her most helpless moment in life when she had nowhere to go. More importantly, Ms. Rain responded and did not let her down.


14. Precious had a good support system:
The girls in Precious’ class were there for her and had similar experiences. They were able to share their stories and help each other heal.
They (the girls) and Ms. Rain is my friends and family.
At least when I look at the girls I see them and when they look they see ME, not what I look like.
Precious also had good community support. She found help through the abuse support group and the HIV Positive support group. Both groups helped her connect with and talk to others who could relate to her problems; consequently Precious did not feel alone.
15. Precious acknowledged when things were beginning to go well and moved on:
I’m alive inside. A bird is my heart. Mama and daddy is not win. I’m winning.
Rita say forget the WHY ME sh@# and git on to what’s next.
Are you ready to PUSH?

I found this review really interesting as it suggests an attitude gained from reading the book that was so completely different from mine. The author of this review has been able to take positives away from ‘Push’ where, to be honest; I felt there were next to none. While it’s true that Precious goes on a life-altering, inspirational journey, that drew me in and made me root for her, I found the over-all message to be one of desolation, depression and hopelessness. It was emotional to see Precious reach so high, start to make something better of herself and her son, only for her to find that there is a death sentence hanging over her head. Was it not enough for her to have been raped and impregnated repeatedly by her father, physically and sexually abused by her mother and have her mentally and physically impaired child taken away from her? While I understand that it was not Sapphires intention to write a ‘happily-ever-ending’ story, there is realism and then there is the equivalent of a Shakespearian tragedy devoid of any of the romance, joy, and hope that make it bearable. What made the book even more heart-breaking was the lack of any real message, all that could be drawn from this oppressing novel was that no matter how hard you try to escape your beginnings, they will forever shape who you are and how your life will turn out. Interestingly this is in direct confliction with the American Dream.